Am I making the right choice?

[walksthestars]

What is the right choice? Making the right choices isn't always easy. Hell, I don't know if what I am doing right now is the right thing. I'm still living in Georgia while my husband is in Ohio. He wants me to be there but, I don't feel that I can be. My health makes it very difficult to be in cold climate states. I have trouble keeping warm and I am in constant pain from the time it starts getting very cold out until the weather warms up. I did tell him this time and time again that I can't live in a state where it becomes very cold during the winter, but he just doesn't listen. I understand, I really do, that his support group which consists of his friends, his mother, step father and brother are there just as my friends, my support group is here in Georgia. I just don't feel that it's fair that I have to go where he will be happy and have to rely on pain medication to get me through the day once winter hits. Am I being selfish? I feel like I am. I just wish we can agree on a compromise. I do not mind moving out of Georgia, I really don't. We've done nothing but struggle in this state. I just want the move to be somewhere where I won't have to deal with cold winters. I wish there was an easy answer for what I'm going through.

Comments

[mirrorofsmoke]

You are not being selfish. He doesn't seem to consider your needs very much, and I chew him out for it. He is not above you, and just because something is right for him does not mean that it is right for you, and he who prides himself on having soooooo much empathy should realize this. You're not his puppy. You don't have to go where he goes, and from the rant his mum was throwing out the other day, I think she is ready for him to get out and get a place/job/whatnot of his own.

So, in short, you are not being selfish.

-Malfoy (With Cisco)

[walksthestars]

Oh really? He didn't tell me that his mom was going on a rant. Funny the way Karma works.